When we are grown ups, we should act as grown ups in all contexts. We should be comfortable with our choices, with our performance, with our direction. We should not need validation.
But validation sometimes helps. A kind word. A recognition — “hey, I see you; that’s awesome.” And reassurance.
Even when we have people who we know are grown ups in our midst, we shouldn’t forget the need for acknowledgment. It keeps things running smoothly. It eliminates self-doubt. It builds and strengthens relationships.
I see you; thank you.